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The title of this workbook reflects a powerful metaphor for communication in recovery. Just as there is a natural space between inhaling and exhaling, there can be a purposeful space between stimulus and response in our interactions. This pause—however brief—creates room for choice rather than automatic reaction.
In this space between stimulus and response lies the opportunity for:
Identifying automatic thoughts before they become words
Recognizing physical activation before it drives impulsive speech
Aligning your communication with recovery values rather than emotional reactions
Choosing connection over being right or avoiding discomfort