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The title of this workbook reflects a powerful metaphor for communication in recovery. Just as there is a natural space between inhaling and exhaling, there can be a purposeful space between stimulus and response in our interactions. This pause—however brief—creates room for choice rather than automatic reaction.

In this space between stimulus and response lies the opportunity for:

  • Identifying automatic thoughts before they become words

  • Recognizing physical activation before it drives impulsive speech

  • Aligning your communication with recovery values rather than emotional reactions

  • Choosing connection over being right or avoiding discomfort