The complexity of the Eighth Step lies not merely in identifying those we have harmed, but in developing genuine willingness to make amends without conditions, expectations, or reservations. This step requires rigorous honesty about the nature and extent of our harmful actions, the courage to face those we have wronged, and the spiritual development necessary to prioritize healing relationships over protecting our ego or comfort.

Many in recovery struggle with various forms of resistance to this step: minimizing harm done, justifying past actions, harboring resentments that block willingness, fearing consequences of amends, or attempting to control outcomes. Others may rush toward making amends without adequate preparation, potentially causing additional harm. The Eighth Step serves as essential preparation, ensuring that when we move to Step Nine, we do so with thorough understanding, genuine motivation, and realistic expectations.

This assessment explores the various dimensions of Eighth Step readiness and helps you develop a personalized understanding of your current willingness and areas requiring further development. There are no right or wrong answers—the goal is to promote honest reflection and identify where you can deepen your preparation for making meaningful amends.