The Recovery Files · Workbooks

Sobriety & Resilience

Building the rest of your life

Stopping is the beginning. Once the substance is gone, the rest of life is still there: how you talk to yourself, your family, your work, your money, your home, and what you do for fun. These twelve workbooks take one area of life each and help you build it in a way that protects your sobriety.

Each one has short readings and ten worksheets, and takes a few hours. Start with the area that feels most unsettled right now, and bring what you write to your counselor, sponsor or group.

These workbooks support professional treatment and are not a substitute for it. In a crisis, call or text 988, or call SAMHSA at 1-800-662-4357.

Inside yourself

How you treat yourself, the habits you carry, how you grow, and what gives life meaning.

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Relationship to Self

What do you say about yourself — to yourself?

Every other part of recovery rests on how you treat yourself. This one listens to your inner voice, audits your self-talk, and builds a picture of who you are growing into.

Inside: your relationship with yourself · self-talk in recovery · growth beyond sobriety · the brain science of self-talk · building the life recovery makes possible · 10 worksheets, including a self-compassion letter

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49 pages · about 2–3 hours

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Breaking Bad Habits

The next frontier of recovery growth

Sobriety doesn't cure every habit. This workbook looks at the sober plateau, transfer addictions, and how habit loops work, then builds new practices that last.

Inside: the sober plateau · transfer addictions · the brain science of habit · from surviving to thriving · 10 worksheets, including a habit loop decoder

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56 pages · about 3–4 hours

3

Learning & Intellectual Growth

Reclaiming your curiosity and building a mind worth living in

Addiction narrows the mind. This workbook looks at why people stop learning, how learning helps the recovering brain heal, and how to become someone who keeps growing.

Inside: what happened to your mind · why we stop growing · the cost of not growing · how learning heals the brain · becoming someone who grows · 10 worksheets, including a beginner's courage workshop

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47 pages · about 3–4 hours

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Spirituality in Recovery

Finding meaning, connection and transcendence

The spiritual side of addiction and recovery: where the emptiness comes from, what it costs, and practices for meaning, forgiveness and letting go.

Inside: the spiritual dimension · why we disconnect · the cost of disconnection · how spiritual practice changes the brain · from emptiness to fullness · 10 worksheets, including a forgiveness workshop

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48 pages · about 3–4 hours

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Your people

Partners, friends and family — the relationships recovery changes most.

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Relationships in Recovery

Now that you're sober — building the love you deserve

Romantic relationships in sustained recovery: attachment styles, the relationship patterns that threaten sobriety, and what a healthy partnership looks like.

Inside: relationships as the next frontier · attachment and the brain · the relapse relationship · a recovery framework for love · 10 worksheets, including a red flag / green flag assessment

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51 pages · about 2–3 hours

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Community, Friends & Belonging

Building the connections that sustain you

Feeling alone in a room full of people. This workbook looks at why connection is hard in recovery and how to build friendships at every level, from fitting in to real belonging.

Inside: isolation in recovery · the brain science of social pain · how friendships are built · from fitting in to belonging · 10 worksheets, including a vulnerability ladder

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54 pages · about 2–3 hours

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Family Resiliency

Now that you're sober — how will you show up for your family?

The damage addiction left at home, the roles and rules every family falls into, and the slow work of rebuilding trust through boundaries and living amends.

Inside: what happens to your family now · the impact of addiction · family roles and patterns · from wreckage to restoration · 10 worksheets, including a living amends planner

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60 pages · about 3–4 hours

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Your everyday life

Work, money, time, home and fun — the practical shape of a sober life.

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Career, Business & School Life

Building a professional life worth living in recovery

Work after the first year: who you are beyond the diagnosis, whether and how to tell people, and how recovery skills carry into the job. It also covers feeling like an imposter and balancing work with recovery without burning out.

Inside: career and purpose after year one · professional identity · recovery skills at work · balancing work, life and recovery · building a legacy · 10 worksheets, including a disclosure decision guide

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50 pages · about 2–3 hours

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Money & Financial Resilience

Healing your relationship with money in recovery

The financial wreckage of addiction, the shame and habits around money, and the beliefs you grew up with. This one applies recovery principles to money and builds a plan that supports sobriety.

Inside: the financial wreckage · the psychology of money · inherited money messages · twelve-step principles applied to finances · building financial resilience · 10 worksheets, including financial amends planning

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52 pages · about 2–3 hours

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Time Management Resiliency

How will you invest your time in recovery?

The hours addiction used to fill. This one looks at procrastination as avoidance, staying busy as a new addiction, and building routines that support growth.

Inside: time as recovery's currency · procrastination and addiction · the busyness trap · intentional time · 10 worksheets, including a recovery routine designer

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57 pages · about 3–4 hours

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Home as Sanctuary

Building a living space that supports recovery growth

Your home says something about your recovery. This one walks room by room through triggers, clutter and old reminders, and turns your space into something that supports sobriety.

Inside: what your space says · how your surroundings shape the brain · what your home is holding · building a sanctuary · 10 worksheets, including a room-by-room walkthrough

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52 pages · about 2–3 hours

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Fun, Entertainment & Adventure

Reclaiming joy and building a life worth living

When recovery feels gray. This one looks at the joy deficit, why fun is not optional, and how to rebuild play and adventure without substances.

Inside: the joy deficit · why recovery feels gray · the cost of a joyless recovery · how fun heals the brain · from surviving to thriving · 10 worksheets, including a recovery adventure bucket list

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48 pages · about 3–4 hours

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Still in early recovery? Recovery Deep Dives works through single problems like cravings, fear and relapse, and Recovery Patterns has 64 shorter self-studies.

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